Contest winner

I want to say a HUGE Thank You to everyone who entered! I had 50 entries. Random.Org selected #21 Chris Landon! Congrats to Chris and Marci!!!!!

Let's talk about image!

This post is based mostly on a conversation I had tonight.

I think that image is one of the hardest things that people deal with in this life. It's hard for individuals to realize that what's on the outside isn't nearly as important as whats on the inside! It doesn't help that our society is uncomfortable with breastfeeding in public. That and Being so self conscious are pretty isolated to the Western Hemisphere, Particularly North America. Do you think that if the taboo aspect were deteriorated that there would be fewer crimes like women getting attacked? Definitely!!!!

"So why do people have to have such a hard time with it?"

Because they don't understand it, and people fear what they don't understand!

"What don't people understand about the human body and its needs and desires?"

People think that they are carnal, and an indulgence like over eating. Notice that the countries that don't frown on obese women are also more open to those things like breast feeding in public, and sexuality

"Well people are obviously comfortable with overeating and having a healthy sexual apitite is actually more fulfilling in the long run than one for fast food."

No they're not comfortable per se, they just do it. Just like people aren't comfortable with sex, but they do it. A healthy sexual appetite IS more fulfilling than one for fast food. But a Healthy food appetite is more fulfilling than an appetite for porn. Sex and food are synonomous in MANY ways!

Does this sound like it makes sense? I do. I truly see a correspondence between people who are afraid of over indulgence, and a rise in crimes of many natures. A correspondence between people who can't accept a love of food, and people who can't understand a love of good, intimate sex. A correspondence between those who think it's inappropriate to breastfeed openly, and those who make us feel unattractive if we don't fit the "desired" physical image!

Special Holiday Pricing

I am running a special from now through the Saturday after Thanksgiving. Enter the code: "BLACK" on any order off of my site and get 25% off of your entire order!

This Month's Special

My Special this month is our New Giftables. Get with me if you want to order :-)

Acknowledge those special acquaintances in your life with the RT Giftable set. These petite versions of mild favorites make the perfect present for teachers, babysitters, colleagues and neighbors. Plus, they work as a great additional Hostess or booking incentive or a nice "thank you" for someone who was helpful to you.

Each RT Giftable set includes three travel-size RomantaTherapy products.

Lotion, Lotion everywhere!

This is the season for DRY hands! So, we're going to make sure you get plenty of lotion options. Any orders placed this season will have a free travel size hand or body lotion. Order $100 and I will add a free REGULAR size hand or body lotion!

Our Special Holiday Hostess Package

Passion for Pink 10% off Through Halloween

Halloween is the last day to get a special discount on the Passion for Pink Rose.
Let me know if you want one, I'm offering it at 10% off through then.

Breast Cancer Awareness

My Special this month in support Of Breast Cancer Awareness/prevention is the Passion for Pink Rose. Purchase the Passion for Pink Rose and Passion Parties will donate $5 in support of breast cancer research and awareness. Includes water resistant, removable, three-speed pink bullet, rose-carved bullet sleeve with handle and a FREE Women & Breast Health Guide.

What is Airport friendly, and what is NOT

My wonderful Husband took a PP order to Utah for me via plane today.

We got there too late to check his suitcase. Which meant the TSA agents needing to go through and decide what was ok to take and what was not.

Here was the "Not ok" list:

* Satin Sheets

* Shaving Creme and After Shave Protection Mist larger than travel size (2 oz)

* Hugs and Kisses/Amazing Heart Massager

* Jewels

* All of the lotions, and lubricants larger than travel size (2 oz)

* Toy Cleanser Spray

Here's was "Ok" list:

* Pure Instincts

* ALL of the bullets, attachments, etc.

* Vibrating Bath Ball (which is quite a bit bigger than I expected)

* Feather Snapper

* Nibblers

* Playful Plug

* Animal Adventures kit

* 52 Positions

* Stay Hard

Ride Em Cowgirl

I recommend this book to those who are mature enough to take it for what it is, and able to look past the things that are in it that don't interest them and take what does from it, or those who are interested in everything it has to offer.

Things like this book spark the mundane into something that might inspire passion in the every day monotony.

It's like attending a Passion Party. It gets your mind on being passionate. And can turn an ordinary afternoon into 15 min, or an hour of more interesting things. :-)

More great uses

Our edible massage candles are AWESOME! They smell great, and feel great. They moisturize and lightly scent your skin. We just used the Cherry one. Yummy! I have a MAJOR sunburn right now, and as long as it wasn't dripped directly on the burn, but rubbed up on it after the initial contact, it felt GREAT!

Alternate uses

Ok, I am worried that many are afraid of the products because they are of a "sexual nature"

But let me say that if you look at it like that, you're missing out.

Here is a list of products that I LOVE for their alternate uses:

*Bullet: Teething, massaging feet-arms-legs- and back, upset tummies

*Creamsicle and Tasty Tease: Teething

There are also some more "innocent" products that I LOVE for their "alternate" uses. So I figured I'd share those too:

*Soft & Silky After Shave Protection Mist™ is AWESOME for tattoos. It keeps them moist and from sticking to things.... ESPECIALLY good when they're new, it's also great on sunburns and diaper rash

*RomantaTherapy Hand Cream: AWESOME for dry, rough feet

Try it out

Here is my first list of Absolute MUST buys:
*Soft & Silky UniSEX Shaving Crème™ Original,
*Soft & Silky After Shave Protection Mist™,
*Liquid Body Silk,
*Revelation™Lubricant,
*Bullet,
*The Amazing Hot Massager™,
*Watermelon Nibblers,
*Hand Cream Green Tea,
*Kegel Pods,
*Silky Sheets, and
*Pure Instinct roll on

Bullets

This little thing is WONDERFUL. IT is not only a sex toy. In fact, I don't use mine for that stuff at ALL. But I have used it to calm my fussy 1 year old down, my young Girls have used it on my neck, arms, legs, and back. IT's super easy to use, and you can buy animal sleeves to put on it,

Lubrication

Yes, I said it. USE IT!!!! Seriously!

*Close your mouth and dry your lips.
*Run a finger lightly over them, paying close attention to how it feels.
*Now, lick your lips.
*With your lips moist, run the same finger over them in the same way, again focusing on how it feels.
Which caress felt more sensual? If, like the vast majority of people, you said: “The one with lips moist,” you’ll see how sexual lubricants can help you enjoy more pleasure in lovemaking.

Unfortunately, despite lubricants’ easy availability, few people use them. In the landmark 1994 Sex in America survey, University of Chicago researchers asked women participants if lack of vaginal lubrication had been a problem for them during the previous year. Almost 20 percent said yes. In just a few seconds, lubricants can completely eliminate this problem. If 20 percent of American women complain about insufficient vaginal lubrication, clearly millions of are in the dark about the value of lubricants.

Why don’t more people use it? Because most people believe that “normal” sex involves only the body, and nothing other than the body. As a result, many people consider lubricants “unnatural.” Nonsense. Lubricants are as natural as any other sex enhancer: candle light, soft music, lingerie, a glass of wine...

Many Normal, Healthy Women Don’t Produce Much Vaginal Lubrication
In the 1960’s, pioneering sex researchers William Masters, M.D., and Virginia Johnson described vaginal lubrication as an early sign of women’s sexual arousal. They maintained that the vagina produces lubrication fairly quickly as women become aroused. But for many perfectly normal, healthy women, vaginal lubrication takes much longer to appear, and when it does, there may not be much of it. Why not? Possible reasons include:

Individual differences
Just as women’s heights vary, so does their production of vaginal lubrication. There is nothing wrong with women who don’t produce much. Some women just don’t self-lubricate very well. Women who become “too” lubricated may also feel abnormal, and suffer embarrassment about soaking the sheets. If this is an issue for you, try placing a towel or two under yourself.

Age
Estrogen plays an important role in vaginal lubrication. Estrogen production begins to decline before menopause, and many women who had no trouble producing lubrication in their twenties and thirties notice decreased lubrication during their forties, when menopausal changes begin. After age fifty, many women experience persistent vaginal dryness.

The menstrual cycle
Because estrogen influences vaginal lubrication, women often produce different amounts of lubrication at different times of the month.

Childbirth
Again, because of hormonal fluctuations, some women have difficulty lubricating for a while after delivery.

Stress
Everything from job hassles to relationship tensions can impair sexual response in both men and women. In men, the result may be erection impairment. In women, stress can reduce lubrication.

Drugs
Many over-the-counter and prescription medications decrease vaginal lubrication. Some women report that birth control pills reduce lubrication. Antihistamines, cold formulas, and other medicines that dry the mouth also impair lubrication. Alcohol is another lubrication inhibitor. Cigarettes and marijuana can have a similar effect.

Travel
Everyone knows that flying across time zones induces jet lag, but jet lag can interfere with lubrication.

Extended sex
Even women who produce a good deal of natural lubrication sometimes need more during extended sex.

Few people understand that some women don’t produce much natural lubrication, and that those who do may not under the circumstances above. Just as a man can love a woman deeply and not be able to raise an erection because of diabetes or heart disease, a woman can love a man and feel very turned on by him, yet be unable to produce much vaginal lubrication—especially after menopause, when vaginal dryness becomes common. If you’re a woman who does not produce much natural lubrication, mention this to your lover. Tell him it’s no reflection on him, or on your feelings for him. It’s just the way you are—and it’s not a problem if you use a lubricant.

Welcome

In June I decided to become a Passion Parties® Consultant, or RELATIONSHIP ENHANCEMENT SPECIALIST. With all of the different multi level home businesses out there, this is the one I bonded with. And it was because it is something I relate to, and believe in.

How I view Sexuality is based on my upbringing in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.... The "Mormon Church."

Though I have not always followed it strictly, due to a very hard time in my late teens/early 20's, I have come to hold the teachings of the "Mormon Church" as my own... because I believe them to be the most accurate.

Many "Mormons" as well as Non-"Mormons" struggle with their sexuality. We come into this world with natural and basic wiring and instincts. And then as we grow we are taught the proper use and boundaries of those instincts and urges.

And it can be so complicated. Finding Balance in ANYTHING is always a struggle....if not to find it, to maintain it.

So, for what it's worth, I am on a mission to educate anyone and everyone who is willing to hear me out on the topics that many find to be "Taboo."

I believe with everything in me that this will greatly benefit the Children I am fortunate to call My Own.

Thank you for your support and for giving me a chance to maybe make a difference :-)