Here is my first list of Absolute MUST buys:
*Soft & Silky UniSEX Shaving Crème™ Original,
*Soft & Silky After Shave Protection Mist™,
*Liquid Body Silk,
*Revelation™Lubricant,
*Bullet,
*The Amazing Hot Massager™,
*Watermelon Nibblers,
*Hand Cream Green Tea,
*Kegel Pods,
*Silky Sheets, and
*Pure Instinct roll on
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Bullets
This little thing is WONDERFUL. IT is not only a sex toy. In fact, I don't use mine for that stuff at ALL. But I have used it to calm my fussy 1 year old down, my young Girls have used it on my neck, arms, legs, and back. IT's super easy to use, and you can buy animal sleeves to put on it,
Monday, July 19, 2010
Lubrication
Yes, I said it. USE IT!!!! Seriously!
*Close your mouth and dry your lips.
*Run a finger lightly over them, paying close attention to how it feels.
*Now, lick your lips.
*With your lips moist, run the same finger over them in the same way, again focusing on how it feels.
Which caress felt more sensual? If, like the vast majority of people, you said: “The one with lips moist,” you’ll see how sexual lubricants can help you enjoy more pleasure in lovemaking.
Unfortunately, despite lubricants’ easy availability, few people use them. In the landmark 1994 Sex in America survey, University of Chicago researchers asked women participants if lack of vaginal lubrication had been a problem for them during the previous year. Almost 20 percent said yes. In just a few seconds, lubricants can completely eliminate this problem. If 20 percent of American women complain about insufficient vaginal lubrication, clearly millions of are in the dark about the value of lubricants.
Why don’t more people use it? Because most people believe that “normal” sex involves only the body, and nothing other than the body. As a result, many people consider lubricants “unnatural.” Nonsense. Lubricants are as natural as any other sex enhancer: candle light, soft music, lingerie, a glass of wine...
Many Normal, Healthy Women Don’t Produce Much Vaginal Lubrication
In the 1960’s, pioneering sex researchers William Masters, M.D., and Virginia Johnson described vaginal lubrication as an early sign of women’s sexual arousal. They maintained that the vagina produces lubrication fairly quickly as women become aroused. But for many perfectly normal, healthy women, vaginal lubrication takes much longer to appear, and when it does, there may not be much of it. Why not? Possible reasons include:
Individual differences
Just as women’s heights vary, so does their production of vaginal lubrication. There is nothing wrong with women who don’t produce much. Some women just don’t self-lubricate very well. Women who become “too” lubricated may also feel abnormal, and suffer embarrassment about soaking the sheets. If this is an issue for you, try placing a towel or two under yourself.
Age
Estrogen plays an important role in vaginal lubrication. Estrogen production begins to decline before menopause, and many women who had no trouble producing lubrication in their twenties and thirties notice decreased lubrication during their forties, when menopausal changes begin. After age fifty, many women experience persistent vaginal dryness.
The menstrual cycle
Because estrogen influences vaginal lubrication, women often produce different amounts of lubrication at different times of the month.
Childbirth
Again, because of hormonal fluctuations, some women have difficulty lubricating for a while after delivery.
Stress
Everything from job hassles to relationship tensions can impair sexual response in both men and women. In men, the result may be erection impairment. In women, stress can reduce lubrication.
Drugs
Many over-the-counter and prescription medications decrease vaginal lubrication. Some women report that birth control pills reduce lubrication. Antihistamines, cold formulas, and other medicines that dry the mouth also impair lubrication. Alcohol is another lubrication inhibitor. Cigarettes and marijuana can have a similar effect.
Travel
Everyone knows that flying across time zones induces jet lag, but jet lag can interfere with lubrication.
Extended sex
Even women who produce a good deal of natural lubrication sometimes need more during extended sex.
Few people understand that some women don’t produce much natural lubrication, and that those who do may not under the circumstances above. Just as a man can love a woman deeply and not be able to raise an erection because of diabetes or heart disease, a woman can love a man and feel very turned on by him, yet be unable to produce much vaginal lubrication—especially after menopause, when vaginal dryness becomes common. If you’re a woman who does not produce much natural lubrication, mention this to your lover. Tell him it’s no reflection on him, or on your feelings for him. It’s just the way you are—and it’s not a problem if you use a lubricant.
*Close your mouth and dry your lips.
*Run a finger lightly over them, paying close attention to how it feels.
*Now, lick your lips.
*With your lips moist, run the same finger over them in the same way, again focusing on how it feels.
Which caress felt more sensual? If, like the vast majority of people, you said: “The one with lips moist,” you’ll see how sexual lubricants can help you enjoy more pleasure in lovemaking.
Unfortunately, despite lubricants’ easy availability, few people use them. In the landmark 1994 Sex in America survey, University of Chicago researchers asked women participants if lack of vaginal lubrication had been a problem for them during the previous year. Almost 20 percent said yes. In just a few seconds, lubricants can completely eliminate this problem. If 20 percent of American women complain about insufficient vaginal lubrication, clearly millions of are in the dark about the value of lubricants.
Why don’t more people use it? Because most people believe that “normal” sex involves only the body, and nothing other than the body. As a result, many people consider lubricants “unnatural.” Nonsense. Lubricants are as natural as any other sex enhancer: candle light, soft music, lingerie, a glass of wine...
Many Normal, Healthy Women Don’t Produce Much Vaginal Lubrication
In the 1960’s, pioneering sex researchers William Masters, M.D., and Virginia Johnson described vaginal lubrication as an early sign of women’s sexual arousal. They maintained that the vagina produces lubrication fairly quickly as women become aroused. But for many perfectly normal, healthy women, vaginal lubrication takes much longer to appear, and when it does, there may not be much of it. Why not? Possible reasons include:
Individual differences
Just as women’s heights vary, so does their production of vaginal lubrication. There is nothing wrong with women who don’t produce much. Some women just don’t self-lubricate very well. Women who become “too” lubricated may also feel abnormal, and suffer embarrassment about soaking the sheets. If this is an issue for you, try placing a towel or two under yourself.
Age
Estrogen plays an important role in vaginal lubrication. Estrogen production begins to decline before menopause, and many women who had no trouble producing lubrication in their twenties and thirties notice decreased lubrication during their forties, when menopausal changes begin. After age fifty, many women experience persistent vaginal dryness.
The menstrual cycle
Because estrogen influences vaginal lubrication, women often produce different amounts of lubrication at different times of the month.
Childbirth
Again, because of hormonal fluctuations, some women have difficulty lubricating for a while after delivery.
Stress
Everything from job hassles to relationship tensions can impair sexual response in both men and women. In men, the result may be erection impairment. In women, stress can reduce lubrication.
Drugs
Many over-the-counter and prescription medications decrease vaginal lubrication. Some women report that birth control pills reduce lubrication. Antihistamines, cold formulas, and other medicines that dry the mouth also impair lubrication. Alcohol is another lubrication inhibitor. Cigarettes and marijuana can have a similar effect.
Travel
Everyone knows that flying across time zones induces jet lag, but jet lag can interfere with lubrication.
Extended sex
Even women who produce a good deal of natural lubrication sometimes need more during extended sex.
Few people understand that some women don’t produce much natural lubrication, and that those who do may not under the circumstances above. Just as a man can love a woman deeply and not be able to raise an erection because of diabetes or heart disease, a woman can love a man and feel very turned on by him, yet be unable to produce much vaginal lubrication—especially after menopause, when vaginal dryness becomes common. If you’re a woman who does not produce much natural lubrication, mention this to your lover. Tell him it’s no reflection on him, or on your feelings for him. It’s just the way you are—and it’s not a problem if you use a lubricant.
Welcome
In June I decided to become a Passion Parties® Consultant, or RELATIONSHIP ENHANCEMENT SPECIALIST. With all of the different multi level home businesses out there, this is the one I bonded with. And it was because it is something I relate to, and believe in.
How I view Sexuality is based on my upbringing in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.... The "Mormon Church."
Though I have not always followed it strictly, due to a very hard time in my late teens/early 20's, I have come to hold the teachings of the "Mormon Church" as my own... because I believe them to be the most accurate.
Many "Mormons" as well as Non-"Mormons" struggle with their sexuality. We come into this world with natural and basic wiring and instincts. And then as we grow we are taught the proper use and boundaries of those instincts and urges.
And it can be so complicated. Finding Balance in ANYTHING is always a struggle....if not to find it, to maintain it.
So, for what it's worth, I am on a mission to educate anyone and everyone who is willing to hear me out on the topics that many find to be "Taboo."
I believe with everything in me that this will greatly benefit the Children I am fortunate to call My Own.
Thank you for your support and for giving me a chance to maybe make a difference :-)
How I view Sexuality is based on my upbringing in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.... The "Mormon Church."
Though I have not always followed it strictly, due to a very hard time in my late teens/early 20's, I have come to hold the teachings of the "Mormon Church" as my own... because I believe them to be the most accurate.
Many "Mormons" as well as Non-"Mormons" struggle with their sexuality. We come into this world with natural and basic wiring and instincts. And then as we grow we are taught the proper use and boundaries of those instincts and urges.
And it can be so complicated. Finding Balance in ANYTHING is always a struggle....if not to find it, to maintain it.
So, for what it's worth, I am on a mission to educate anyone and everyone who is willing to hear me out on the topics that many find to be "Taboo."
I believe with everything in me that this will greatly benefit the Children I am fortunate to call My Own.
Thank you for your support and for giving me a chance to maybe make a difference :-)
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